My eulogy at her funeral:
RIVERDALE, N.Y. — As my mom would have said, “I can’t believe the whole thing.”
She would be the first to tell you she left too soon. There were still so many places to go, things to do, places and people to see. But she also would have been the first to admit she had a long, full and happy life.
She went out just the way she wanted to. She went to sleep for a surgical procedure and never awoke. No anguish. No knowledge. No real pain. She never wanted to finish her life in a home like my father did. She didn’t have to. Only a few days before her death she was clear as a bell. She came. She did. She keveled. She loved and she was beloved. She never complained.
She told my brother and I all the time how lucky she was to have two sons like us who cared so much about her. My brother did the yeoman’s work day to day. I came in out in, took her to the ballgame and, thanks to my loving wife, Alicia, gave her a homemade family of grandchildren and ultimately a great grandchild she always wanted.
She loved those kids, Raphi and Joanna, from the time they were little, and adored the glorious Mr. Fox. We spent a fun afternoon together with the baby just two weeks ago. I sent her pictures of Fox every morning on my brother’s cell phone and on the day she died she kissed the final one she saw, my brother said. It was one of the last things she did.
The kids were her grandchildren come hell or high water. She often told the story about when she first met them. They were little tykes, around 5 and 2 years old at the time, and they clamored out of the back seat of our car in San Diego to hug her.
“Nanny,” Joanna said. “I’ve been waiting for you.”
It was love at first sight and no turning back after that.
She was our nanny, great grand nanny and mommy. She was a good friend and a wonderful relative, loved by everybody. She spent hours on the phone with people talking about their problems and giving advice. She was the ring leader of her knitting club and was renowned in Riverdale for her care and shear expertise. She was the most honest person I ever met. Really, I can’t recall ever catching her in a lie. She told you what was in her heart and on her mind even if you didn’t want to hear it. She once told my wife, one of the most beautiful and elegant women on earth, that she didn’t know how to dress. No kidding, no joke.
From the moment my father died about two and half years ago, she made it a point to live life with gusto, not looking too far back. My father had a tough time in his decline and was miserable almost every day. Not Nanny. Life is short, she figured. And she enjoyed every minute of it. With Steve as her constant companion, they traveled to visit relatives and friends. Her oldest friend Gloria in Fort Wayne, Ind. Mim’s birthday bash in Columbus, Ohio. She felt uneasy until she saw many of them for what turned out to be the last time. Then she felt a lot better. She was at peace.
Baseball was always such a constant. In the last 20 years of her life, My mother became a huge Yankees fan. Go figure it. When we were kids and our dad took us to several games each season, she’d stay home. No interest. Then came 1996. Derek Jeter, Bernie Williams and the run of Yankee World Series championships. My father took me to my first game in 1960 at what I fondly call the original, original Yankee Stadium. The one that Ruth actually built. Paying it back, in 2008, I took him for his last game at the rebuilt Yankee Stadium. There was no way my mother was staying home.
She watched the games religiously on television. When my father became ill and was living in the Hebrew Home we’d spend plenty of time watching them together. I realized she hadn’t seen the new Yankee Stadium, so about three years ago, I told my friend Randy Levine, the president of the club, about it. Graciously, he invited her, saying she could sit anywhere she wanted. She wound up in the owner’s box. She was thrilled and dressed in a beautifully flowered dark shirt that showed off her features. She was beaming. So cute.
It was a Tuesday night against Cleveland and as it turned out we were the only ones in the box. As fate would have it, Hal Steinbrenner, the team’s principal owner, was in town. I took her over to meet Hal and Randy. The team was in a slump and had just lost a string of games to the Red Sox and Mets. Gloria Bloom wasn’t pleased. Without missing a beat, she asked them what they were going to do about the team?
“You’re right Mrs. Bloom, we’re trying,” Hal said. “We’re going on an important road trip and we think we’re going to play better.”
“Well, I hope you do, this is terrible,” she responded.
“I know Mrs. Bloom, you’re right,” Hal said again.
Later in the game, the Yankees brought in Joba Chamberlain to defend a 4-0 lead.
“I can’t stand Joba Chamberlain,” she said.
Why I asked?
“Because he can’t pitch,” she said.
Within minutes Chamberlain let up a three-run homer to make it, 4-3.
I went back to Hal’s office and reported any mother’s assessment.
“We’ve been trying to trade him,” he said. “Now I know where you get it from. Maybe someday you and I will be as wise as your mother.”
I’m still trying. My brother’s a Mets fan and mom wasn’t fond of the Mets. But often she would watch them with him “just to keep peace in the house.”
Not a telephone call went by during the baseball season when she didn’t ask me about the Yankees. I have the perfect job for that.
“Did you see the Yankees last night? she’d say after a loss. “They stink. What’s wrong with them?”
Sometimes I’d try to explain to her that baseball is a long season of 162 games. Even the best of teams are going to lose 62 of them. It’s only in September when the days grow short that each loss gains in significance, especially in a pennant race. Especially when it’s the loss of such a dear loved one that we’ve come together to recall, mourn and celebrate today. That’s the beauty of baseball. It mirrors life. It has its ebbs and flows. It breaks your heart. It’s designed to break your heart. It comes again in the spring and it goes away in the fall when you most need it, the great Bart Giamatti once said.
I will miss those conversations. I already do. Nanny was born in 1927, the year of the Murder’s Row Yankees of Ruth and Gehrig. She lived through DiMaggio, Mantle, Berra, Maris, Jackson, Munson, the Fab Four and even the notorious A-Rod. She lived through most of their 27 World Series titles.
We were blessed to have her. She was blessed that she wasn’t a Cubs fan.
I love you mom. Say hello to dad for me. There’s still half a baseball season left. Tell him the Yankees are really trying hard to play better.
Postscript: As we were returning from the cemetery and just as we drove past Yankee Stadium, Starlin Castro hit a walk-off homer in the bottom of the ninth inning to beat the Rockies. Gloria Bloom would’ve been pleased!
The last two days have been the hardest in recent memory. When my father died a few years ago, it was a long slow slog of deterioration and in the end my brother, daughter and I were at his beside in the ICU. There was complete closure. Nothing was left to be said. He was 86. A good long life.
But nothing prepares you for the telephone call saying that a dear friend has passed away. Tom died in his sleep this week in his Scottsdale, Ariz. home. He was 67. There’s no closure. Not for his wife, two sons, friends and the rest of his family. Certainly not for myself and my wife, Alicia.
The four of us were close, Alicia, myself, Tom and Mal.
Tom’s death seems to have been peaceful. No pain. That’s blessed. Like me, he was a two-time colon cancer survivor. Did the disease come back? We’ll never know. He was buried on Thursday duiring a graveside ceremony in a pastoral setting near his adult roots in Costa Mesa, Calif. I was asked to be one of the pallbearers. In the great Jewish tradition, we took turns shovling mounds of dirt on to his casket after it was lowered six feet into the ground. Like I said, there will be no closure. The chance to say goodbye. No last giggle. The decision is final. There is no appeal.
I will remember Tom in many ways. He was quirky, combustible, funny and really didn’t have much of a cuddly side. He was a man’s man in the mold of the Eastern European country he was born. He never complained about anything. Not an ache or a pain or a personal problem. But he had a very soft side.
He adored his wife, two boys and grandchild and knew I was overwhelmed with joy over the recent birth of our first grandchild, a boy, the delicious and beauteous Fox. I have been reduced to a whimpering slob over him.
And so, Tom sent me this email only the other day, with these words of wisdom. It was the last one:
On the first day, God created the dog and said, “Sit all day by the door of your house and bark at anyone who comes in or walks past. For this, I will give you a life span of twenty years.”
“The dog said, “That’s a long time to be barking. How about only ten years and I’ll give you back the other ten?”
And God saw it was good.
On the second day, God created the monkey and said, “Entertain people, do tricks, and make them laugh. For this, I’ll give you a twenty-year life span.”
The monkey said, “Monkey tricks for twenty years? That’s a pretty long time to perform. How about I give you back ten like the dog did?” And God, again saw it was good.
On the third day, God created the cow and said, “You must go into the field with the farmer all day long and suffer under the sun, have calves and give milk to support the farmer’s family. For this, I will give you a life span of sixty years.”
The cow said, “That’s kind of a tough life you want me to live for sixty years. How about twenty and I’ll give back the other forty?” And God agreed it was good.
On the fourth day, God created humans and said, “Eat, sleep, play, marry and enjoy your life. For this, I’ll give you twenty years.”
But the human said, “Only twenty years? Could you possibly give me my twenty, the forty the cow gave back, the ten the monkey gave back, and the ten the dog gave back; that makes eighty, okay?” “Okay,” said God, “You asked for it.”
So that is why for our first twenty years, we eat, sleep, play and enjoy ourselves.
For the next forty years, we slave in the sun to support our family.
For the next ten years, we do monkey tricks to entertain the grandchildren.
And for the last ten years, we sit on the front porch and bark at everyone.
Life has now been explained to you.
There is no need to thank me for this valuable information. I’m doing it as a public service. If you are looking for me I will be on the front porch.
Below the message line he added simply: “Wecome to the club, Grandpa :)”
See you someday on that front porch, Tom.
Jeff Bagwell, Barry Bonds, Roger Clemens, Ken Griffey Jr., Trevor Hoffman, Mike Mussina, Mike Piazza, Tim Raines, Lee Smith, Alan Trammell.
It’s a bit early this year to receive and file annual ballots for the National Baseball Hall of Fame, but this was an easy one for me and mine is already in the mail despite the fact that it isn’t due until Dec. 24.
I voted for who I perceive to be the only first ballot slam dunks, Junior and his 630 homers and Hoffy with his 601 saves. Back from last year’s ballot are Bagwell, Bonds, Clemens, Mussina and Piazza. None of them need much corroborating evidence. Added this year, are Raines, Trammell and Smith much for logistical reasons. Their time is running short on the ballot and I believe the trio all had Hall of Fame careers with significant impact on the Major Leagues. I’ve voted for each of them at times before.
I often hear that a Hall of Famer is a Hall of Famer. The stats don’t change. So why should he get a vote on your ballot one year, but not the next? Whether I like it or not, that’s how the BBWAA voting system works. A player now gets a maximum of 10 years on the ballot (it used to be 15) and each ballot is different. For the past two years there has been a logjam on the ballot caused by the inclusion of some of the last generation’s greatest players mixed with the back log of guys who played under the suspicion of using performance-enhancing drugs.
But we voted in Tom Glavine, Greg Maddux and Frank Thomas in 2014 and John Smoltz, Randy Johnson, Pedro Martinez and Craig Biggio earlier this year. Six of the seven made it the first year their names appeared on the ballot. That opened up space this time to include Smith, Raines and Trammell.
None of them really need defending, but all of them find themselves near the back end of their time on the BBWAA ballot. When the Hall board of directors changed the eligibility rules in 2014, they grandfathered in three players left in the 11-15 year category: Smith, Trammell and Don Mattingly. Mattingly was in his 15th and final year and had only 9.1 percent of the vote earlier this year. He’s gone.
Smith, once the all-time save leader with 478 until Hoffman broke it, is now in his 14th year. He had 30.2 percent. Trammell, whose numbers are comparable to Barry Larkin and Ozzie Smith – two of the most recent shortstop electees – is in his 15th and final year. He had 25.1 percent. Raines, who has really been hurt by the new rules, is in his ninth of 10 years and had 55 percent. He has a faint chance, but not much. He would have had a better chance if his eligibility had remained 15 years.
Piazza, at 69.9 percent, has the best chance of the returnees to be elected this year. But he still needs to make up 38 votes. With an electorate now culled by about 20 percent because of a new Hall vetting process, that may be a tall order in one year.
I’ll be interested to see how the smaller voting population – 475 ballots were mailed out – affects the so-called steroid era candidates. Clemens (354 wins) and Bonds (762 homers) polled at 37.5 and 36.8 respectively in the most recent balloting. Since then, Bonds had his obstruction of justice conviction tossed out by the Ninth Circuit Court of Appeals. In the end, neither Bonds nor Clemens were found guilty of doing anything. But they were vetted in the Mitchell Report and have been tried and fried in the court of public opinion.
That has affected their overall Hall vote, but not mine.
As always, I’ll be highly interested in hearing your opinion of my choices. That’s always a fun exercise. Let the venting begin.
I was asked this question on Facebook recently by my friend Steve Tarde, who performs the famous baseball poem “Casey at the Bat” and constantly bugs me about the status of Padres manager Bud Black. This is my response:
The history of third baseman voted into the Hall is a strange one. There are only 11. Wade Boggs is the last one the BBWAA voted in (on the first ballot) a decade ago. He has the highest batting average (.328), the highest on base percentage (.415) and the most hits playing third (2,788).
Ron Santo is the only other modern player voted in recently (2013) by a Veteran’s Committee. I suspect that his was more a sentimental vote coming after 15 years of BBWAA and numerous Vet Committee rejections. Santo’s hitting numbers just don’t compare with Boggs or George Brett or the power numbers of Mike Schmidt and Eddie Mathews. Nor do I remember him as the defensive wizard that was Brooks Robinson. And that covers all of the modern third baseman in the Hall.
The retired Chipper Jones is the next third baseman up. He’ll be eligible for the Class of 2018. And Beltre is still active and far behind him. Chipper’s numbers compare very well with the other Hall of Fame third basemen and switch hitters like Mickey Mantle and Eddie Murray. As a third baseman, he batted .305 with a .401 on base percentage, 2,235 hits and 389 homers. He also has sizable numbers during the few seasons he played left field. The more I look at the traditional numbers the more I think he’s a first ballot electee. Same with Beltre, who right now has 400 homers and is working toward 3,000 hits overall. Only Schmidt (548) and Mathews (512) would have more homers than Beltre among third basemen in the Hall.
When you look at non-traditional numbers like WAR, Alex Rodriguez is 16th all-time and by far the highest among players who have logged significant portions of their career at third base. We don’t have to get into the details, but his candidacy will certainly be marred by his suspension and involvement with performing-enhancing drug use. Schmidt at 26th overall has the highest WAR of any of the third basemen already in the Hall. And consider that the stat wasn’t even imagined when most of the 11 were voted in. Jones is 50th and Beltre is currently 65th.
I’ve come to using WAR lately in my annual Hall vote as not a defining stat, but as just another useful metric. When I vote for the Hall I first compare others voted in at a candidate’s primary position. It’s a definite dynamic for each position so it’s almost impossible to compare and contrast a guy like Beltre with a first base candidate like Jeff Bagwell or an outfielder like Tim Raines. Certainly, middle infielders and catchers are categories all to themselves. Suffice to say that among third basemen, Schmidt, Mathews, Boggs and Brett are all well above Beltre all-time in this metric.
Does it alter my opinion of Beltre as a potential Hall of Famer? Maybe. He’s at 78.9, well below A-Rod’s 116.7. Of course, Alex will wind up as one of the top offensive players in Major League history no matter what drugs he did. Anyway, if I’m around that long to ponder these guys names on the ballot I will have plenty of time to figure it out.
PASADENA, Calif. — The day after Jackie Robinson Day, my wife, Alicia, and I decided to make a pilgrimage to see the giant, dark metal busts of Jackie and his older brother, Mack, on display in a park across the street from City Hall in old Pasadena.
The boys grew up there, playing sports and creating havoc after their mother yanked them out of rural Georgia to seek a better life, a move unheard of for a lone black woman in America after the first World War. If you want to know where Jackie inherited his famous guts it was from his devoted mom.
Our pilgrimage was apropos coming a day after the Dodgers finally announced that a statute in his honor would be erected at Dodger Stadium. This was so long in coming, his widow Rachel had given up hope it would ever happen. Rachel will be 93 this summer.
“How do I feel?” she said when asked to respond to the revelation. “I’ve been waiting, waiting for years and years.”
The current Dodgers ownership cannot be held responsible for this long transgression. The root of the issue dates back to the late Walter O’Malley, who despised everything Branch Rickey after a financial falling out between the two baseball greats too lengthy to detail here. Suffice to say Jackie is forever tied to Rickey, the man, who in 1945, signed him as the first African American of the 20th Century to a professional baseball contact.
For no apparent good reason, Robinson was not in the lineup for Game 7 of the 1955 World Series, the day the cries of “wait ’till next year” finally stopped from Brooklynites everywhere. He had played in Game 6 and in the entire series, batting .182
Back in 2005, I asked Rachel about this and she glibly responded: “I don’t know why Jack didn’t play. I really don’t know. That was 50 years ago, buddy.” Don Newcombe, a pitcher on that team, thought Jackie might have had a sore Achillies. No way Robinson would have missed that game with a sore Achilles. Walter Alston kept him on the bench and he’s not around to explain why.
A year later, O’Malley tried to trade Robinson to the hated New York Giants. Robinson had already taken a executive job with Chock full O’nuts, a famous New York eatery back then, and had sold his retirement story to a magazine. He purposefully didn’t tell O’Malley. When the deal went down Jackie simply refused to report. That winter, he unceremoniously returned quietly to the clubhouse at Ebbets Field to retrieve his things. The Dodgers fled to Los Angeles in 1957 and Robinson never saw the old yard again. Such was the state of animosity between Robinson and O’Malley.
Robinson was inducted into the National Baseball Hall of Fame in 1962. It took 10 years for the Dodgers to retire his famous No. 42. During that period, Robinson declined to attend most events and games at Dodger Stadium. Nearly blind from the ravages of diabetes, the relationship between Robinson and O’Malley had thawed enough for Robinson to attend the ceremony retiring his number during the summer of 1972. Only a few months later he was dead at 53.
It’s not as if Major League Baseball did anything, either, to recognize the man whose life was consumed with shattering the sport’s color barrier, beginning on April 15, 1947. The pursuit ate him up, physically. On the 25th anniversary of that event in 1972, there was barely a mention of it. No league-wide celebration generated by the owners or Commissioner Bowie Kuhn. Only on the 50th anniversary in 1997 did baseball begin making up for lost time when Commissioner Bud Selig acted to universally retire his number. Now the Dodgers are doing the same, making up for lost time
That brings us back to this morning on a golden sunlit day in Pasadena. As I approached to take a few pictures, the busts of the Robinson brothers were surrounded by what appeared to be a class of fresh-faced elementary school students. Their teacher, a young Asian man, was asking them if anyone knew who Mack was. I approached from the rear and waited. There were no answers. When the teacher queried the children again I asked him if he wanted me to answer the question.
“Sure, since nobody else is,” he said.
“Well, Mack was Jackie’s older brother and a great athlete in his own right,” I said. “He was a track star and a great sprinter. In the 1936 Olympics at Berlin, Mack won the silver medal in the 200-meter race finishing just a split-second behind Jesse Owens, the gold medal winner. Jesse Owens went on to gain much fame. Do you know what happened to Mack?”
With that the entire group turned around and stared at me in anticipation.
“He came home to Pasadena and became a street sweeper.”
“That’s sad,” one of the little boys said.
Sad indeed. But Mack had a much calmer life. He died in 2000, at the age of 85, far outliving his heroic younger brother.
I felt pretty content with my contribution. But as I walked away, I heard the teacher say, “Now, can anyone tell me what the Olympics is? If you don’t know go home and ask your parents.”
Jeff Bagwell, Craig Biggio, Barry Bonds, Roger Clemens, Randy Johnson, Pedro Martinez, Mike Mussina, Mike Piazza, Curt Schilling and John Smoltz.
This was the most difficult ballot I’ve ever filed and I’ve been voting since 1992. I deemed 17 players Hall of Fame worthy for 10 spots. Some years I might have been hard pressed to even find six. The logjam was caused by a great generation of pitchers on the ballot for the first time, joining those players who have been blocked for various reasons the last two years by my BBWAA colleagues. Add another with 3,060 hits, who missed by two votes and should have been elected earlier this year.
Before I get into it, here are the seven players, to my chagrin, who didn’t make the cut: Jeff Kent, who hit the most homers ever as a second baseman (351 of 377); Mark McGwire, the first player to hit 70 homers; Tim Raines, the National League’s equvilant to Rickey Henderson; newcomer Gary Sheffield and his 509 home runs; Lee Smith with 478 saves; Sammy Sosa, with 609 homers, and Alan Trammell, certainly a better offensive player than Ozzie Smith if not as fancy defensively. I gave all of them very serious consideration.
I’m not a big proponent of extending the size of the ballot, although I did vote at the most recent BBWAA meeting to increase the slots from 10 to 12, a recommendation to the Hall’s Board of Directors that I doubt will be accepted. Twelve slots would have made little difference to me this year, although I probably would have added Smith and Trammell. Both were grandfathered in when the Hall diminished the eligibility requirement for players on the BBWAA ballot from 15 years to 10 years. Smith has two more years of eligibility after this one and Trammell one. That’s why I would’ve voted for them had the extra spots been available. A player still needs five percent of the vote to remain on the ballot the next time around. Maybe next year, we’ll see.
Hall officials stated last summer that the new eligibility period makes the ballot more manageable. Actually, it moves players through the ballot process much faster. In defending the move, the Hall noted that shortening the eligibility period actually effects a very low percentage of candidates. Here are the actual numbers: since the BBWAA began voting for the inaugural Class of 1936, 115 players have been elected, 13 in their last five years under the historic rules of eligibility, 11.3 percent. That is hardly negligible. Most recently, Burt Blyleven was elected in his 14th year and Jim Rice in his 15th.
So let’s get back to my actual ballot, which is chocked with six pitchers, three of them –- Johnson, Martinez and Smoltz — on the ballot for the first time. Johnson is a slam dunk with 309 wins, a .646 winning percentage, and is second only to Nolan Ryan with 4,875 strikeouts. He won five Cy Young Awards, was an All-Star 10 times, split the 2001 World Series MVP with Schilling, pitched a perfect game, and his ninth highest lifetime WAR among pitchers of 104.3 is the tops of any pitcher not already in the Hall besides Clemens, who, like Bonds, is plagued by mitigating circumstances. Johnson, it can be argued, is the most dominant left-handed pitcher in baseball history.
Next up is Martinez, whose .687 winning percentage (219-100) over 18 seasons is the sixth highest in history and by far the best of his era. He’s next up in pitcher’s WAR at 17th (86.0) and 15 of those hurlers above him (sans Clemens and Johnson) are in the Hall. To me, though Pedro’s overall numbers are not outstanding, anyone who saw him pitch in his prime knows he was one of the most electric pitchers of his era.
But voting for Pedro created a quandary and made me take a second look at Schilling, who’s in his third year on the ballot and one guy I hadn’t voted for before. Schilling was 216-146, but in many ways he was just as dominant as Martinez. Schilling, of the bloody sock, was an 11-2 pitcher in the postseason and 4-1 in winning the World Series three times, once in Arizona and twice in Boston. In contrast, Pedro was 2-4 in the postseason and 1-2 in the World Series. Schilling’s WAR of 80.7 is 26th on the all-time list.
In my mind, if I voted for Pedro, I had to vote for Schilling. That made me take another look at Mussina, who had 270 wins and a .638 winning percentage in 18 years with the Orioles and Yankees. Mussina’s WAR of 82.7 is 24th on the all-time pitcher’s list, two spots above Schilling. Thus, if I voted for Pedro and Schilling, I also had to vote for Mussina, which I did, also for the first time.
That left Smoltz among the top first-ballot pitching candidates, completing the trifecta of Greg Maddux and Tom Glavine, who all played for 10 years together on some great Braves teams. Maddux, with 355 wins and Glavine, with 305, both were inducted earlier this year. Smoltz doesn’t have those gaudy numbers. He split his career as a starter and closer, heading to the bullpen after Tommy John surgery knocked him out for the entire 2000 season. He had 213 wins and 154 saves. The obvious comparable is Dennis Eckersley, who was elected to the Hall with 197 wins and had 390 saves after Tony La Russa turned him from a starter to a lights out closer with the A’s in 1987. What put me over the edge on Smoltz was that he was part of Braves teams that won 14 consecutive division titles, five National League pennants and the 1995 World Series. He was 15-4 with a 2.67 ERA and 1.14 WHIP in the postseason, the 15 wins second only to Andy Pettitte’s record 19.
The rest of my ballot was easy. Biggio is the only player with 3,000 or more hits not in the Hall except Pete Rose — suspended since 1989 for gambling — and Palmeiro, who failed a Major League Baseball-administered drug test. Bonds, Clemens, Piazza and Bagwell all deserve to be in. They are tainted by the PED era and the perception they took drugs, although there’s no quantitative proof of that. Bonds is the all-time leader with 762 homers, Clemens had 354 wins, Bagwell’s 79.6 WAR is 37th on the all-time list of position players and tops among retired first basemen not yet elected to the Hall, and Pizza hit 396 of his 427 homers while playing behind the plate, the most ever among catchers.
Let the exchange of opinions begin.
NEW YORK — Through a couple of old classmates at De Witt Clinton High School, who tracked me down via social media, I was able to find my first journalism teacher, Ada Chirles.
I've told many people she had the greatest impact of any of my teachers, setting me on a 45-year career path that continues at MLB.com. I never had the opportunity to tell her. Until today.
Imagine how pleased I was to discover she's alive and well, and at 91, living about 10 minutes from my mother and brother in an apartment in Riverdale, N.Y., still a beautiful neighborhood in the north Bronx that abuts the Hudson River. From her apartment she has a beautiful view.
I'm in New York between Hall of Fame inductions last weekend and my daughter's wedding up in the Catskills on Aug. 9. I'm visiting family in the Bronx only six months after my father's death. My mother's 87th birthday is tomorrow. We're celebrating that with my brother and kids downtown tonight.
Old friend Steve Winters gave me Ada's number last night. Figuring there's no time like the present I rang her up this morning and went right over for a visit. She is spry and personable and very bright. She remembered me like it was yesterday even though I haven't seen her in at least 40 years.
She was the faculty advisor of the Clinton News and the journalism teacher. I'm fond of saying when I realized I wasn't going to replace Mickey Mantle in center field for the Yankees I had to find another path to spend a career in sports. Even then I could write and I joined the sports section of the paper in 1966. My first assignment was to cover a fencing match.
By my senior year of 1968-69 I was named Sports Editor and started writing my first columns. My brother, Steve, followed in the same position two years later. Miss Chirles, as she was called, was a tough taskmaster. She'd sit you down at her roll top desk and tear your copy apart. The newspaper was a Columbia School of Journalism award winner every year and for good reason. She ran the New York Daily News information bureau for 25 years, earning her undergraduate and Master’s degrees at Hunter College in downtown New York, during her off hours. Needless to say, she ran a very tight shop.
I reminded her about the time she assigned me a story to be entered in a citywide competition. I was uninspired and did a subpar job. She sat me down at that desk for the next hour and went to work on the story. With numerous corrections on paper she told me to rewrite it. All I did was follow her directions. We won the award: Best Sports Story in the Bronx for 1968. The trophy is still sitting on the shelf of my mother's apartment.
She didn't recall the details so many years later, but she was thrilled to hear of it.
One of my first columns came in the wake of the killings in 1968 of Martin Luther King and Bobby Kennedy. As a teenager I stood on line for hours outside. St. Patrick's Cathedral to pay homage at RFK's casket. At the end of that year, the Public School Athletic League banned the rifle team from school competition, stating "a gun is not a toy" in rendering that decision, a statement that still resonates today. I wrote a column, supporting the PSAL decision.
The paper came out and the next day I went to gym class, which was about 500 strong and all guys since Clinton was an all-boys school back then. Instead of encountering basketball pick up games and the like as usual I found the entire class seated on the floor while the gym teachers railed about my column. I knew I had picked the right profession.
Subsequently a letter of dissent was mailed to our newspaper office, from a gun club, of course. Ada advised me to print that as my next column. I didn't want to do it. She said, "You're doing it!" We did it.
Ada broke out a bound volume of glossy newspapers from that era. To my surprise, there were the columns.
I found out today a few things I didn't know about her. She's of Italian descent and her real name is Ciarleglio. The name was changed to Chirles when her father immigrated through Ellis Island.
"When he started to pronounce it, they stopped him and said, 'It's Chirles. You're an American now. That's your new name,'" she said.
She was the last of seven children. All are dead now save for a 98-year-old brother, living in a nursing home in Sonoma County, Calif. She wasn't married in my high school days and never has been.
"It wasn't for me," she said. "I had my family, all you kids, all boys."
She traveled the world and her apartment is filled with artifacts from those excursions she took alone to places like Italy, Ireland and Peru. She's a woman well ahead of her time. Fearless, a woman after my own heart. I love strong women.
"I guess I was," she said sheepishly.
Recently, a new colleague at BAM asked me If I had earned my undergraduate degree in journalism. I didn't. It was in English Lit. I learned everything I needed to know about journalism from my teacher in high school, I told her.
I had many good teachers through my years in high school, college and graduate school, but nobody, but nobody in my life had the impact of Ada Chirles. I'm just glad we both lived long enough for me to tell her that.
SAN DIEGO — Some may disagree, but in my humble opinion Steve Garvey’s walk-off homer — before anyone even called it a walk-off homer — to win Game 4 of the 1984 National League Championship Series for the Padres over the Cubs is the top sports moment in San Diego history.
It put the then 15-year-old Padres on the map and did the same for a city that still hasn’t produced a Major League sports champion.
“It was my greatest game and a great game all the way around,” Garvey said on Friday night as the Padres celebrated the 30th anniversary of that NL championship at Petco Park, only miles from where it actually happened at what is now called Qualcomm Stadium in Mission Valley.
The greatest game of his career, really?
“Probably, because it affected people the most,” said Garvey, who because of that night alone had his No. 6 rightfully retired by the club.
No doubt. With apologies to those who also remember the 1998 playoffs and World Series here, that week of baseball in 1984 beginning with the final three games against the Cubs in the NLCS and culminating with the first two games against the Tigers in the World Series brought San Diego to a level of euphoria never experienced again.
Nothing is like the first time and it was the maiden voyage into such unknown territory for San Diego fans. What made it special was how unexpectedly it happened. The Padres were spanked at Wrigley Field by the combined score of 17-2 in the first two games of the last of the best-of-five League Championship Series.
They flew home dejected and downtrodden, landing at the airport without much of a peep. In those days the players parked their cars at the stadium and when they approached the old ballpark by bus the players realized that thousands of fans had gathered there to herald their very much unheralded return. It turned into a huge pep rally with various players grabbing a bull horn to tell the crowd that it wasn’t over until they said it was over.
In the year when the first Ghost Busters film had invaded the lexicon, this cry came forward: “Who you going to call? Cub Busters.” Overnight, ingenious fans printed up buttons, posters and bumper stickers that flooded the market place saying just that.
For some reason, the crowd noise in Mission Valley surprised the Cubs, who were set back on their heels and didn’t bother to show up for Game 3, losing 7-1.
Garvey then crawled out of a sick bed to explode in Game 4, a rare postseason Saturday night game in that era.
“The night before I came down with a stomach virus and nobody knew,” Garvey recalled. “I was up all night. I was weak. I tried to hit and take infield before the game and couldn’t do it. I laid down on the training table. Dick Dent, our trainer came in and said, ‘Why don’t you sit out? You could use the day.’ I said, “Are you kidding me? I played in 1,207 straight games. I’m going to play tonight.’”
And that’s how a game for the ages was fashioned. Garvey came off that table to go 4-for-5 with five RBIs, converting every big at bat of the night. In the ninth, with hard-throwing Cubs reliever Lee Smith on the mound, Alan Wiggins opened the inning by striking out swinging. Tony Gwynn followed with a base hit, setting the stage for the Garv.
“It seemed like every time I faced Smith it was in the shadows of Wrigley,” Garvey said, referring to the now 100-year-old ballpark that at that time still had no lights. “I didn’t have a hit off him, but I knew he wasn’t going to fool around in that situation. He wasn’t going to try to get me out on a breaking ball. He threw a 95-mph fastball up and then he checked Tony. So I figured, here it comes again.
“This one was a little bit down and I got a good piece of it. Most of my big hits were right of center. I hit it high and it started to take off. I thought I hit it well enough. It’s almost like everything came to a stop. It was like The Natural when the ball was going up. I get to first base and I look up and I see [center fielder] Henry Cotto leap and I thought, ‘My god, this is going to be the greatest catch in postseason history.’”
Cotto didn’t catch it, of course. The ball kept rising and banged the wall behind the cyclone fence. As Garvey rounded the bases he pumped his right fist repeatedly in the air and the crowd went bonkers. It was his ninth and final home run of the season. In 1983, his NL record 1,207 consecutive-game playing streak came to an end when he dislocated his right thumb sliding into home plate. He never did have power again in that hand.
The next day, the Padres won their first pennant when pinch-hitter Tim Flannery’s grounder shot through the legs of first baseman Leon Durham for an error that still stains Cubs lore. There was a story behind that one, too. Second baseman Ryne Sandberg had inadvertently dumped Gatorade on Durham’s glove. Durham had to take the wet and stiff glove out in the
field with him and missed the ball. Gwynn then smacked a shot that took a wicked hop over Sandberg’s shoulder.
The Padres were on their way. The fact that they lost to the Tigers in the World Series was an afterthought. The Cubs missed a shot to go to the World Series for the first time since 1945. They’re still waiting.
But it all was set up by Garvey, the shot heard ‘round San Diego, the greatest moment in this town’s sports history.
“It’s like Kirk Gibson’s homer in 1988. Everybody remembers it as having won the World Series,” said Garvey, who was there on Friday night with shortstop Gary Templeton, utility man Kurt Bevacqua, catchers Terry Kennedy and Doug Gwosdz and pitching coach Norm Sherry. “But it didn’t. That was Game 1. And this was Game 4, but it got us to Game 5. And then the momentum changed dramatically.”
Addendum: This piece honors the memory of all those from that epic 1984 Padres season who are no longer with us: Owner Joan Kroc. Among the players, Wiggins, pitcher Eric Show, shortstop Mario Ramirez and outfielder Champ Summers. On the staff, manager Dick Williams and coach Jack Krol. Journalists Barry Lorge, Bob Wright and Wayne Lockwood of the San Diego Union. Announcer Jerry Coleman. And all the best to Gwynn, who is stricken with cancer and was unable to attend the ceremony. Our thoughts and prayers are all with you, Tony.
Len Bloom 1927-2014
NEW YORK — For whom the bell tolls. It tolls for thee. And on Tuesday, during a snowy day in his beloved New York City, it tolled for my dad. He was 86.
For those among you who know us well, it would figure he did not go softly in that good night. He struggled to the last breath. I know. I was there to the bitter end along with my brother and daughter. Like his mother, brother and father before him he went out when his heart gave out. His body was used up. He got everything he had out of it.
The gonzo writer Hunter S. Thompson once said that, “Life should not be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside in a cloud of smoke, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming “Wow! What a Ride!”
That’s the way it was for Lenny and his immediate family. It was quite a ride. And we’re all here today for the sole reason of celebrating all that.
With his passing it is certainly the end of an era. Sarah, Saul, Murray and Lenny. Luncala as he was affectionately called by his parents. We used to laugh about that when we were kids.
All gone to eternity and memory now. Always affectionately and lovingly. Sarah was the first to go, in 1966, almost 48 years ago. Murray in 1978 and Saul in 1990. Lenny was the last somehow making it to 2014 despite beginning his long broadside slide many years ago.
He left behind a motley crew of sons, grandchildren, nieces, nephews and his wife, Gloria, who is also 86 and holding her own.
With all of them gone we are the standard bearers now of the Bloom tradition. The family softball games of spring and summer and the Rosh Hasshana football games of the fall. The Blooms, Kaplans, Chenfelds, Selingers, Walchers, O’Briens, Wilbats and on and on. The Kaplans still haven’t beaten the Blooms, but I digress.
For there was nothing my father loved more than his family, his own and the entire extended group many of us who were at his bedside in an incredible outpouring of love and affection in the days before his death. A musician and writer, he never wrote that hit song or score to a Broadway play. Who can forget the great rock ditty, Yo-Di-Yo? In the ICU this past Sunday we sang it to him: “Love me quick, love me slow make my heart go Yo-Di-Yo. Tell me baby that you love me so. Yes, he wrote that. I kid you not. It was the flip side to a 45-rpm record on the Colpex label. He wrote the musical lyrics to a play called “A Joyful Noise.” It closed in two weeks. We used to call it the Bloom touch. Midas in reverse.
He had so many jobs some one once gathered all the business cards and created a collage. My brother has the actual cards in what we’re calling the Lenny Bloom archives. In those archives are some of his clips, thoughts and sheet music. He was proud of all those jobs. For a long time that collage hung on the wall of the apartment in Riverdale where he lived for 55 years. My mother and brother are still there.
Len Bloom could have a lovable — and not so lovable — pomposity to him, but he never took himself or his foibles too seriously. His sense of humor was legendary. How can any of us forget him taking over the mike at some wedding or barmitzvah? When he got the crowd going with his Sinatra-like singing and Uncle Miltie-like one-liners, he’d often tell everyone “we’re really davaning now.”
But his greatest legacy, and a doff of the yamuka to Gloria as well, are the sons he raised. Steve, what can you say about him? He dedicated the last two years as full time caregiver to both of them after Len had to move into the Hebrew Home, the same Hebrew Home where Saul spent the last years of his life. Steve nurtured him, shaved him, kibbutzed and engaged with him, even at times wiping his toushe. He said he did it for the most basic of reasons. “He was a good father to me and it was my time to give back.” Thank you for all your love and care Uncle Steven. We certainly couldn’t have weathered the last few years without you coming up so big.
And so it is so. I took the best from my mother and father in raising our two children, Raphi and Joanna. Alicia’s two children. She is a super wife and mom and like Steve and I, our kids are the obvious product of a lot of love and care.
My father taught me that you can always talk things out even if that talk sometimes followed a lot of yelling and screaming. A lot of yelling and screaming. Those talks went on well into our adult years. He was a sounding board and always had an opinion. A big help even a few years ago when I fortunately overcame two bouts of colon cancer as he began a serious decline.
When we were kids he was one of the guys, corralling us and assorted friends on weekends to play ball. He always told the story, and recalled it recently, about the time when we were already in college that he asked on some long ago Saturday if we wanted to go out and play ball. Sorry dad, have things to do. Cat’s in the Cradle. He knew life had inevitably shifted. That is the way life is. Sometimes sad and cruel. Just like this.
From Joe and Iris to Sarah and Saul to Murray and Arlene to Gloria and Leonard to Alicia and Barry to Joanna and Mark to Raphael and Ashley and on and on forever. The circle of life.
But I have no complaints. I was as close to my father as any son could be. Nothing in the end was left unsaid. I told him all of this in one form or in another as the days inevitably slipped to a simple few. The talks, the jokes. He was old school before there was old school. He couldn’t even program the clock on a VCR. He never wore a digital watch. He never went beyond cassette tapes and left an incredible self-assembled library to prove it. His last job was at a place that fixed typewriters. That was around 2000. He would have hated that I read this off my iPad just as he complained about me incessantly using my iPhone, which unwittingly sapped my attention. But we always spoke the same language, telling each other we loved each other. There’s no more you can ask than that.
In his last days he still wasn’t ready to let go. He wanted to play. One last ballgame. One last meal. “Where are we going to eat?” he asked. “Wanna go home.” And the last words I heard him say on that snowy Tuesday, “Please, take me out in the snow.” My only regret is that I couldn’t honor those simple last requests. I felt helpless. He was done. That long broadside slide into that cloud of smoke was about to end. It was a hell of a ride.
Good luck and all my love dad wherever you are. For whom the bell tolls? It tolls for all of us.
My eulogy delivered at his funeral, Jan. 26, 2014.
PostScript: As we buried him at Beth David Cemetery it started to snow. So he got his last wish. We took him out in the snow.
Barry Bonds, Jeff Bagwell, Craig Biggio, Roger Clemens, Tom Glavine, Jeff Kent, Greg Maddux, Jack Morris, Mike Piazza, Frank Thomas
I’ve always voted for the best players from their particular era and this year for me was no different. Using all 10 slots for the second time in a row, I voted for the all-time home run leader, a trio of pitchers who totaled 1,014 wins, the multi-faceted member of the Astros with 3,060 hits, the catcher and second baseman with the most homers ever at their positions, the pitcher with the most wins in the American League during the 1980s, and two first basemen whose OPS is among the best of anyone to ever play that position.
To do so, I had to revamp my ballot after last year’s astounding “no vote” from my colleagues in the Baseball Writers’ Association of America. Gone from last year are Sammy Sosa, Mark McGwire, Rafael Palmeiro, Lee Smith and Alan Trammell. Guys I used to vote for like Tim Raines, Fred McGriff and Edgar Martinez may not be coming back on my ballot anytime soon, either. I had to also ignore quality pitchers like Curt Schilling and Mike Mussina, who had major impacts on the game.
Many good players, I fear, will now be neglected as more and more greats of the just past era will have exhausted their 5-year waiting period to join the holdovers on the ballot. John Smoltz, Randy Johnson, Trevor Hoffman, Ken Griffey Jr., and Mariano Rivera are among others who by 2018 will eventually join the group. They all should be elected on the first ballot.
I had always voted for McGwire and Palmeiro, adding Sosa last year despite the shadow of PEDs hanging over their careers. But I decided this year there was no room on the ballot to waste my vote. All three came in at well under 20 percent last year and ultimately are in danger of falling off the ballot for not maintaining the requisite 5 percent to remain on it for a maximum of 15 years. Palmeiro at 8.8 percent is right there. The BBWAA is never voting any of them into the Hall, so why keep pushing against the wind?
Meanwhile, Biggio (68.2 percent), Morris (67.7) and Bagwell (59.6) obviously needed some help. They are all Hall worthy. Morris, sadly, may not be able to make up the 42 votes necessary in this, his 15th and final year, on the BBWAA ballot. Biggio and Bagwell, teammates in Houston, still have plenty time.
A player only has to garner at least 5 percent of the vote each year to remain on the ballot for a maximum of 15 years. This is going to create a logjam in the coming years as each voting member of the BBWAA individually determines who meets the Hall of Fame criteria.
But this year, Maddux, Glavine and Morris should all get in. Though wins are currently the bane of many analysts, you can’t discount the 355 Maddux totaled in his career. To me, he’s the only sure thing on this ballot. Glavine had 305, 244 of them for the Braves, who won 13 consecutive division titles with him anchoring the starting rotation. If that’s not the definition of Hall of Famer I don’t know what is, although some are arguing against his inclusion. Morris won 254 games and started for three World Series-winning teams: the Tigers, Twins and Blue Jays.
Paraphrasing Braves manager Bobby Cox, who is going in to the Hall via a Post-Expansion Committee vote along with Joe Torre and Tony La Russa next July 27 in Cooperstown, N.Y., any time any of those three took the mound their teams had a chance to win.
I know the entire definition of Hall of Fame starter is going to have to change. Because no one will accumulate close to 250 wins in this day and age, we’ll have to use other metrics. That must be determined in the future, but the current crop should be cast in the era they played the game when pitch counts were less material, starters worked deeper into games, and the staff leader pitched Games 1, 4 and 7 of the World Series like Morris did in 1991. That series ended when Morris outdueled Smoltz and pitched a 10-inning, 1-0 complete-game victory to give Minnesota the title over the Braves.
Morris is certain that will never happen again. I agree.
When voting for the Hall of Fame, I always ask myself if that player was a standout on the field during the years I saw him play. I then look at statistical comparisons to other Hall of Famers, who played the same position. Kent, for example, was a better offensive second baseman in almost every category than Ryne Sandberg, one of the players recently elected at that position, in 2005. Kent is way ahead in homers and RBIs and owns a slight edge in lifetime batting average. Lou Gehrig far and away owns the best OPS of any first baseman in history. He’s third overall, while Thomas and Bagwell finished 14th and 21st respectively. McGwire was 10th. Too bad he shoulders so much baggage. Bonds is fourth, behind Gehrig, Ted Williams and Babe Ruth.
I know my decisions and rational are going to spark some conjecture among readers. They always do. For that’s the nature of the Hall of Fame voting every year. So let’s have at it my friends. I welcome the discourse and intelligent discussion.